There are a few certain people who just seem to get on your nerves, who genuinely, and without reason, are loathesome to you and only you. You may have all the same friends, the same interests, they may be the most well intending individuals ever and yet you have to stop yourself from punching them. Pyschologically, they just put us off. Their actions grind you the wrong way.
Why? Honestly, we don’t fully know. Subconsciously, we all have various behavioral styles, different manners in approaching people. Maybe they are too forward, or not forward enough. Maybe they remind you of some bad experience or cruel person. The bottom line is that behaviorally, you don’t work.
But you know what? You don’t have to be friends with everyone. Maybe the feelings are justified, maybe they aren’t. If you don’t get along but have to be around each other, then try your best to be respectful and kind. However, you are under no obligation to be best friends with them. Maybe over time the feelings will fade and working with them will allow you to grow as a person. However, purposely putting yourself in a situation where you know you’ll end up being mean is unnecessary!
Today is a good day, with all that it is and isn’t. Sometimes people don’t get along, and it’s not the end of the world. Remember to be patient and respectful, you don’t have to be friends.